Top 10 Books I Need to Read in 2019

Well…I did a thing.

I liked both of the topics on Artsy Reader Girl and Bionic Book Worm, so…

…I combined them. Continue reading

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Solving Spiritual Debates

Over plates of mediocre spaghetti, I hear a familiar discussion start. A fellow Christian (usually male, shaking his head sadly) puts his fork down and bellows, “The body of Christ is so¬†FRACTURED!”

The rest of the table pauses. I munch on a corner of garlic bread.

“How can we have UNITY in the church,” the man continues, “if we’re all SEPARATE!?”

Missing the rhetorical nature of the question, the rest of the table jumps in. Continue reading

How to Talk to Women in Their 20s

Church people hate me.

At least, it’s hard not to feel that way as a single woman.

For over a year, I’ve watched people panic when I show up without a partner. I’ve been asked, “Soooooo hooooooow’s wooooooork?” more times than I can count. I’ve had others explain things to me that I already understand.

I thought I was the problem. I doubled-down on small talk, asked lots of questions, brought wine to Bible study.

Still I got panicked smiles, questions about college, the dreaded, “Hoooooooow’s work?”

I thought, Maybe these people are uncomfortable around singles.

Enter Tim. Continue reading